Valentine's Day Discussion
Discussion Question for Valentine's Day:
Does your spouse or significant other like baseball? If yes, did you have to convert them to the game, or did they already like it before you met?
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Depends on how you define "like"
She likes going to games - mainly for the atmosphere. But she hates watching a game on tv, which means I have to be very picky on which games I decide to fight over wanting to watch.
by guru4u on Feb 14, 2026 9:16 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
+1
Same here, I am an Indians’ season ticket holder (insert joke here), and the atmosphere of the games is what she likes. That being said, combine that with warm weather in the spring and it makes for a good vacation each year to go to Spring Training.
The one thing she doesn’t like though, is my obsession with my dynasty baseball league! :)
"God, I'm from Cleveland. When is it going to be our time?"
by BStal11 on Feb 14, 2026 9:49 AM EST up reply actions 0 recs
good luck on the dynasty league aspect!
if you can turn her around on the dynasty league, you know she is a real keeper!
PPPPPPUNTO 4 MVP 2010
by punto4mvp on Feb 14, 2026 10:55 AM EST up reply actions 0 recs
+1
If “like” means: tolerates an occasional Sunday afternoon Twins game on TV and wants to make it to ONE game a year. Hopefully she likes attending outdoor baseball more and we can go more often.
by sloffy on Feb 14, 2026 10:16 AM EST up reply actions 0 recs
+1
My girlfriend likes going to the games, but she isn’t a huge fan of watching them on TV, though she does get into it when it is a good game.
Also, I’m a huge Yankees fan, so needless to say she watched A LOT of baseball this past October…that probably helped her get into watching baseball a little more
by AKinn15 on Feb 14, 2026 11:45 AM EST up reply actions 0 recs
My wife and I were introduced by my realtor
Our first date was getting together at her place for dinner and the NLCS (Bartman game)
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by FreeZorilla on Feb 14, 2026 10:03 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
The wife is a Cubs fan
Definitely didn’t have to convert her.
Made for interesting discussion with both her family (full of Cubs fans), and my parents (also Cubs fans), since I’m an A’s fan. I’m probably not winning that battle when we have kids…
Really scary idea in her family: Another family group related to her (I think it’s like a great Aunt or second cousin type link):
Husband: Cards fan
Wife: Cubs fan
8 kids: 4 Cards fans, 4 Cubs fans.
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by jumperjah on Feb 14, 2026 10:09 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
My wife hates baseball...I've been working on her for years.
Hopefully a good pennant race can cure it…if not, well, I don’t know.
"Sometimes you just want to sit back and watch somebody throw 100." - Jeff Passan on Neftali Feliz
"Baseball's all that's real" - JB
by Ryin A on Feb 14, 2026 10:24 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
my girlfriend has become a bigger fan, mostly to tolerate me
In fact, the other day for some reason she was trying to think of a player named Tim, and the first one she came up with was Tim Beckham.
Pretty awesome.
by nivarsity on Feb 14, 2026 10:29 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
We are working on it
Every year my wife says she likes (or maybe tolerates) it more and more.
by bgkrenz on Feb 14, 2026 10:42 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
For the Love of the Game
My Wife used to only like going to ballgames for all the tasty snacks at the ballpark. During the 2003 Season, she began watching Red Sox games with me daily on the MLB ticket. She gave every player her own nickname and she truly enjoys watching the games. Life is good LOL
by topjimmy on Feb 14, 2026 12:17 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
This is going to be the first baseball season together with my wife.
She knows I love baseball, and I think she will enjoy going to games, but she might take some convincing to turn into a real fan. I’m hoping to get her to start to like various team members so she has something to watch and root for other than just “baseball”
by lailaihei on Feb 14, 2026 12:18 PM EST via mobile reply actions 0 recs
Before we got together
she didn’t even know what baseball was. Then, I gave her a test, literally a baseball test with over 50 questions. After this she now understands it and now loves going to Angel games with me and watching them on TV.
First we had a Salmon and now we have a Trout, let's see the same results.
by angelskid2210 on Feb 14, 2026 1:11 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Curious
what the 50 question test entailed exactly
by hybrid on Feb 14, 2026 9:13 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
If I can find the test I will put some of the questions on here. been 4 years now.
First we had a Salmon and now we have a Trout, let's see the same results.
by angelskid2210 on Feb 16, 2026 6:56 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
my girlfriend hates baseball
My friend that is a huge Cubs fan met a woman at a party a few summers ago and started chatting with her. He asked her what she had been doing that summer, and she replied “Same thing I always do every summer - drink beer in my back yard listening to Cubs games on the radio”.
They are now married.
by jibs on Feb 14, 2026 1:28 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Love the happy ending...
unusual for a Cubs fan to have one!
The monster at the end of this blog.
by grover on Feb 14, 2026 4:10 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
OOOOOHHHHH
That was cold
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by Figgi4life on Feb 17, 2026 6:13 PM EST via mobile up reply actions 0 recs
She tolerates it
This is funny. Her and I discussed this last night when we were out on a date. Before we got together she liked watching baseball. Once we got together she started to hate it because she says she has never met anyone that watches baseball this much. Since then she is starting to come around. She likes watching Grady Sizemore (and not because he is a great baseball player) and enjoys attending Akron Aeros baseball games (we go to like 20 a year). So she is starting to come around and eventually I think she will be just as much of an addict as I am.
by Pup Dog on Feb 14, 2026 2:44 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Wife couldn't care less about baseball
but she easily tolerates my slavish following of it, just as I easily tolerate her watching HGTV and the Style channels at every opportunity…
Freude, schoener Goetterfunken,
Tochter aus Elysium,
Wir betreten feuertrunken,
Himmlische dein Heiligtum.
by t ball on Feb 14, 2026 2:50 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
like myself, my wife likes teh beer
so we like to take the tot to durham bulls games and get tipsy in the sun
playoffs and mariners games are also couple stuff
by gogotabata on Feb 14, 2026 3:41 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
My wife likes going to games
But she won’t watch it on TV unless I massage her feet.
The monster at the end of this blog.
by grover on Feb 14, 2026 4:12 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Before we got married...
my wife pretty much hated all sports. I was a UT baseball fan and had had season tickets for years. She had a son who was 4 when we got married, and I started taking them to the games. She took to it immediately. I think the fact that they were still “kids” and she had a son herself got her to thinking of the UT players as just more of her kids. Pretty soon we were going to Rangers games, then Phillies games (she was from Philly). And when our son went from t-ball all the way through high school baseball, she was a fanatic. Was even “baseball mom” for 3 of the high school years.
Sadly, she’s in DC now and there’s no real baseball there.
by Jihan1 on Feb 14, 2026 5:41 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
now a casual fan
I’ve worked hard at getting her into the game. She gets that OBP > AVG, but also likes looking at some of the better looking players. So she’s gone from a novice to following her team at least through August. In turn, I have to watch Rachel Ray and Oprah sometimes.
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by dfa on Feb 14, 2026 6:27 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
What I looked for...
My wife is the greatest woman I know. I refuse to celebrate Valentine’s Day on the grounds of the commercialism of the whole thing, so we celebrate Pitcher’s and Catcher’s Reporting Day. We will get each other baseball themed gifts, instead of cheap chocolate. She also tolerates my obsession with simulation baseball and is playing in a league to see what it is about. I know no one here will believe me, but I know I am a very lucky guy, and will just enjoy it for the rest of my life.
by NMUWildcat027 on Feb 14, 2026 7:48 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Very Cool
That is cool how you and your Wife celebrate Valentines Day. We too are tired of the over-inflated prices alho I haven’t talked her into baseball related gifts, maybe I will work that in ;-)
I am very happy that she finally understands the game with a high level of respect and knowledge altho she doesn’t get into the fantasy side and tolerates my obsession LOL
I almost teared up when she asked me out of the blue, if I ordered the MLB season ticket yet!!!
PLAY BALL!!!!
by topjimmy on Feb 14, 2026 8:23 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
Happy Valentines Day to JERI
Jeri,
As the great woman behind the man, I wanted to wish you a very happy Valentines Day.
I also am interested in hearing from you out here so that we get the females perspective as we know John has an insane amount of knowledge of the game which definitely comes with a price of endless hours of research.
by topjimmy on Feb 14, 2026 8:26 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
I thought John was the great man behind Jeri
Jeri actually took the time today, on Valentine’s Day, to help me with a question about ordering the Prospects Book. That’s one great double play combination no matter what way you view it.
by Rotofan on Feb 14, 2026 10:25 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
My wife jokingly calls baseball "the other woman"
because i spend so much time watching and online about baseball. She does go to a couple games a year with me, but she doesn’t love it like I do.
by philadelphiacub on Feb 14, 2026 8:29 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
My wife likes going to games, watching them on tv, listening to games on the radio when they aren’t televised……she even has me text her updates when she’s at work. And we’re Pirates fans! Definitely a keeper.
"So you think 25 percent of the country is retarded?! Yea. Atleast 25 percent. Well lets so a sample. There are 4 of us an you're retarded. Thats 25 percent." Southpark; Mystery of the Urinal Deuce
by gorillakilla34 on Feb 14, 2026 10:25 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Took my wife to Spring Training...
in Tucson about 12 years ago and introduced her to Magglio Ordonez. She didn’t like baseball previously, but she loved it when we caught a foul ball at our first game together, then later took the ball down to the field and had Magglio sign it. My wife speaks Spanish, they had a long friendly conversation, and she’s loved the game ever since. Unfortunately, she became a ChiSox fan (because of Magglio), but I have been able to live with that. My wife is otherwise perfect. :)
by exposrock! on Feb 14, 2026 10:39 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
JERI's Baseball Fandom
I love going to games. I love the smell of all the stadium treats, I like people watching, and I like being able to focus on the player who interests me. I like watching the pitchers the most, and guessing what will be thrown by looking how the ball is held, etc. I don’t like watching baseball on TV. You don’t get the crowd excitement, and you have to look at whomever the cameraman and director think you should look at. However, during the season, if there is a game John wants to watch, there’s no question…especially since he uses the ‘but Honey, it’s my job’ excuse…he gets to watch it. To be fair, though, he usually will only ask to watch a game on the main tv that has a personal interest for him. Otherwise he records it and watches it downstairs or watches it on the computer. I can’t really complain, but don’t tell John. :-)
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by mssickels on Feb 14, 2026 11:00 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
How much MLB do you and John watch?
Obviously John’s passion is MiLB, but I’m sure he likes to follow players after he graduates.
P.S. Just got the book and it was excellent. Perhaps even better than past versions. Nicely done.
by carverslacker on Feb 14, 2026 11:05 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
MLB Games
Sadly, I don’t think I’ve been to a game since our 4 year old was born. We have issues finding available babysitting, especially for something like a baseball game, which would have us gone from about 5pm to midnight. AND, it’s pretty damn pricey, too, once you factor in babysitting, parking, admission and Sheboygan Brats! John tries to go with family/ friends a few times a season, but it is pretty hard to get there sometimes. I’m not even sure he got to the KC stadium once last year, now that I think about it. I’m sure he’ll do better this year.
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by mssickels on Feb 15, 2026 5:51 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
My wife enjoys baseball, but mostly a convert
She enjoys games in person much more than on TV. Like the Twins poster above hopefully the new out door park will have her wanting to go to more games.
My wife has been kind enough to join me on most of my baseball adventures. I’ve been to 26 parks now, and she’s been along for most. We’ve had great times together (also fitting in neat things like all the national parks out west and museums and such out east).
by carverslacker on Feb 14, 2026 11:02 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
Can't complain
My wife definitely likes going to games - major league (Orioles and Nationals) and minor league (Bowie Baysox). She’ll tolerate having games on TV, but if we ever have a local team in a pennant race again, she’ll probably watch those games with some interest. She doesn’t care my obsession with fantasy baseball or my son’s growing obsession with it. But speaking of my son, my wife gladly agreed to name him Nolan Ryan. So, yeah, I think that can qualify her as a baseball fan, can’t it?
The wind is in the buffalo.
by journeymen on Feb 15, 2026 12:27 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
I'm a die hard Yanks fan...
and my girl is a die hard Sawx fan. We’ve been together for about 2-1/2 years and she’s already brought me to 3 games. 2 at Fenway, 1 of which was a Yanks game, and the other at the new Yankee stadium for the opening exhibition games. It’s great having someone to enjoy games. Plus she is know taking an interest in my fantasy league asking for tutorials on how the draft works. Gotta love that. She’s definitely marriage material
by Tbose622 on Feb 15, 2026 8:44 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
She certainly likes it
Loves going to the games, can stand watching it with me on TV. Of course, I’m just lucky she likes sports and works in sports (worked for the Pistons/Shock, AHL and now College Athletics).
Sometimes she’ll grit her teeth to get through a Mets game with me (can ya blame her?) but overall the only thing she really doesn’t like, like someone else said, was my dmb leagues. She often makes fun of me for that one…
"...It reminds of us of all that once was good and it could be again. Oh... people will come Ray. People will most definitely come."
by metsman128 on Feb 15, 2026 9:44 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
My wife digs baseball. We go to about 3-4 Durham Bulls games each years and maybe around 15-20 Carolina Mudcats games (we live closer and the parking is a hell of a lot better in Zebulon). My wife tends to root for the nicest players on the team, even if they aren’t the best (sometimes they overlap). A few years ago she rooted for Johnny Rayburn, the next year it was Cameron Maybin and last year it was Chris Heisey and Chris Denove.
She enjoys watching the Phillies on TV, but only a few times a year. Though she’s watched most of the last 2 World Series runs. She mostly shares my love of the Minors and seeing guys climb the ladder (though she is less enamored with the stats side of why they’re so good or bad)
by Cormican on Feb 15, 2026 10:41 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
My wife doesn't like baseball
Neither do my two boys. I T ’ S T O S L O W
for them…go figure.
by Berndaddy on Feb 16, 2026 6:02 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
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