JERI's Update...mostly off-topic
OK. So it is after 10, and I'm just now getting the opportunity to sit down and type. John is in Pheonix, and has already attended a game. He sounds very happy to be there. He wanted me to tell you that he's going to try and get some good video to post for you from the games.
When John takes these trips it is always a reality check for me. We are so fortunate to be able to both be at home, so even if he is busy, if I need help with a child, or a dog needs walking, spider needs squishing, or if I have a bad night of sleep and want to stay in bed for an extra hour, he's there to help out, just like I help him with the same type of stuff. Just being able to share the day to day chores, the day to day fun, and knowing that help (and adult conversation!) is within calling distance is such a gift.
I always wonder how the heck single parents manage to keep everything going day after day. Just trying to get the dogs walked with the four year old 'helping' is enough to make me scream...not to mention doing all the kid stuff, without a break, having one kid sick, one kid with some kind of freaky insomnia from Hell...I know that in less than a week, I'll be part of a duo again, and that it won't just be me. I also know, usually after about day two of a scouting trip, why I'm not a single parent. I'm too darn wimpy.
So, there's no question of the day today, since it's so late. However, I would like to express a huge, sincere amount of awe for all the single parents of the world who manage to get it all done, and not just for a week at a time, but every day.
G'night.
PS. Once again, the picture has nothing to do with anything. It is out cat, Spock, from when he was just a few months old.
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Capri sun in a can?
It’s just not the same without those diabolical pouches.
by DiegoAsFan on Nov 5, 2025 11:59 PM EST reply actions 0 recs
in the words of daniel tosh
I don’t think i’d ever be able to stab someone,
i was never good at opening a capri sun…. no juice
by PHGold09 on Nov 6, 2025 1:41 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
I give my hats off to working parents’, too. It takes a lot of flexibility, dedication and self-sacrifice to scrounge around find the time to do what needs to get done. I’m fortunate enough to not work, so I get some time to myself, but when I was working I often wondered how two parents (much less one as you mention above) have the time to make it all work.
That being sad, I agree about Caprisun in a can - it just isn’t the same as punching that straw in while accidentally squeezing the pouch and getting that syrup juice all over you.
So mssickles, how many baseball games (majors, minors, independent, or even high school) do you attend a year? Or do you leave all of that to John?
by KSM on Nov 6, 2025 10:33 AM EST reply actions 0 recs
JERI at the Ballpark
We used to attend several games a year, before the birth of our now 4 year old. I haven’t been to a game in some time. Hopefully in the coming seasons we will be able to go to a few games, if only for a few innings. I am a firm believer in that you don’t take a baby/toddler/preschooler to an event he is too young to sit through, and our little one is pretty immature when it comes to sitting through anything. And frankly, the cost of babysitting would double the price of our night out. I’m too cheap!
I really enjoy seeing baseball in person. I don’t enjoy it as much on television, because it almost always works out that I want to look at something the camera man doesn’t want to look at, so it is frustrating. Additionally, a big part of the fun of a baseball game is taking in the scents and sounds of the stadium, feeling the mood of the crowd, etc. You don’t get that on TV.
For now, though, I stay home from the ball park.
John's Wife and Email Secretary
by mssickels on Nov 6, 2025 11:38 AM EST up reply actions 0 recs
HELLO, hello, ello, llo, lo DID SOMEONE SAY SOMETHING, Thing, thing, hing, in
That wasn’t an echo was it. That was Mrs, Sickels talking, not my wife…. At least you like Baseball games. My wife would rather craft. She does like hearing about the players and the comings and goings. She says it’s like a male soap opera. She claims that subconscienciously that’s why we like it… So in her eyes - Steroids in baseball = General Hospital…Go figure.
by Berndaddy on Nov 6, 2025 12:54 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
Capri Sun
Learning to poke a straw through a Capri Sun pouch at the age of five is a bit like learning to drive a stick shift at the age of fifteen. It’s an arduous process that eventually becomes second nature, and ultimately seems kind of meaningless when you can just drink it out of a can or drive an automatic transmission.
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by alexwithclass on Nov 6, 2025 1:35 PM EST up reply actions 0 recs
Kitties aren't supposed to smell like Capri Sun
They’re supposed to smell like kitties!
by ThomasG on Nov 6, 2025 11:28 AM EST reply actions 0 recs







